**This blog was originally created in 2010 to document my husband and my life as we tried to get pregnant with our first child. After finding BDSM I repurposed the blog in 2014 to look at our kink and balancing it with the two children we now have. Please feel free to read the below posts and any from my 2010 and 2011 archive, but please be aware that they are not representative of our life now. Also, certain edits have been made to these posts. To start from the beginning of our kinky life, start here. **
A co-worker invited me to his wedding today. I was surprised and really excited. D and I have been getting together with him and his fiance to play board games and have meals at each other’s homes a couple of times. So it was really nice to see that they liked us enough to give us an invite. D and I have not had the best of luck with friends. Each of our respective best friends from college actually live in the same city we do, yet they never make any attempt to spend time with us. And when we try to meet somewhere for an activity or a meal, it turns out with us spending money and cooking a meal ourselves and entertaining until all hours of the night. It is nice to have friends who appreciate the balance. In any case, we are really excited about the wedding and having friends who want to spend time with us.
I guess I didn’t realize how hard it would be to balance friends as an adult. Weekdays are crazy with chores and dinner in the evenings. And on the weekends I want to spend time with D. Especially now when he will have so little free time. It’s the friends that are worth making time for that I treasure.