Chasing Me Chasing You

An uncollared submissive struggling through depression, motherhood, and the constant craving of her next orgasm.

Hitting the Rim

I have tried things since entering the world of BDSM that I didn’t even know existed two years ago. Looking back, my vanilla life was so innocent as it pertains to my sexual knowledge. Who knew the massive education that D/s would provide?

One of the largest areas of new territory (no pun intended) has been toys and activities pertaining to asses. I use the plural in this sense, because this also includes Sir’s ass. One of the first BDSM things we tried was during our switch phase where I would top him. I had a harness and would peg him. He loved it. It was quite the experience for me too. You know, having a penis and all. But that was how I really entered the world of using one’s ass in a sexual way.

As our roles changed and firmly cemented me into the submissive role, our pegging play fell by the wayside. Then it was my turn. This is the first plug that Sir bought for me. To prepare for it and subsequently anal sex, I had to start putting fingers in my ass while in the shower. Something I never in my life thought I would do. But this process has been all about pushing myself. So I eventually upgraded to my pretty glass plug; which recently passed away, and has already been replaced. And after the first awkward experience, we now have anal sex often. My comfort level has grown immensely in the last year.

Recently, Sir has decided to try something new. Over the last month we have been incorporating me giving him rim jobs into our play. Talk about things I never thought I would do.  But it was a lot easier than I thought. And his reaction is always a good motivator. Hearing him moan and appreciate my service is wonderful. It’s not my favorite thing in the world to do. I’d be lying if I tried to go that far. But as far as things that make him happy, it’s a lot easier than taking a beating from the angry red bastard. But it has been an interesting addition. We have been incorporating it slowly, as both of us are getting comfortable with our limits. Just like playing with new sexual positions, we are working through what our bodies with allow us to do. Nothing makes me feel older than trying to get into a position for some sexual play (sex, oral, anal, etc.) and finding that I cannot manage it. But it’s all about experimenting.

There are so many nerves in the ass (just in case you didn’t know). Even just the simple pressure of my tongue can turn him on. I like to think that my tongue has special powers, but nothing proved this like a rim job. I honestly think he enjoys it almost as much as a blow job. Admittedly, I like giving blow jobs more, but I have thing for cock.

As difficult as this process has been as a whole, adding new things has been easy. It’s these little steps forward that keep me realizing that I can do this. I mean, if I can make him moan by licking his ass then I must be doing something right.

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7 Responses to “Hitting the Rim”

  • subhubphx

    Wonderful post. Rimming is probably the most underrated sexual pleasure there is. I really enjoy it when my Mistress does it to me, although it is extremely rare. When I do it to her, it is about the most intimate demonstration of worship that I can think of.

    • Rye

      I agree. I wouldn’t have thought so, but it’s been interesting to me how much he enjoys it. I’m sure it’s something we will continue with.

  • Cammies on the Floor

    My husband also enjoys it, and to my surprise so do I. It was one of those things that I never thought about. And I’m sure your tongue has magical powers.

  • Malflic

    This post is why I always love KotW so much. Great posts like this always give me new things to think about that are outsider of what I do.

    • Rye

      KotW is often like that for me too. It’s fun to read about what turns other people on. We have gotten a lot of new ideas. Thanks for reading and glad you liked it.

  • sub-Bee

    Rimming is a guilty pleasure of mine too, I love both giving and receiving. Sadly it is not something Sir is into, he just doesn’t like the idea. He has rimmed me using a dental damn but as we didn’t use lube in the inside it just felt odd and its only happened once. I on the other hand plied him with drink one evening and lowered those inhibitions of his and surprise, surprise he loved it!

    • Rye

      Surprise, surprise!


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