Chasing Me Chasing You

An uncollared submissive struggling through depression, motherhood, and the constant craving of her next orgasm.

Six Month Update

Today is six months since I started my 101 Things in 1001 Days. After finding the lovely Rebel’s Notes list, I couldn’t wait to attempt the challenge as well. I’ve only completed 6 out of the 101. I was discouraged until I counted how many I have in progress. I also have several goals that are spread across the entire challenge (post something every week or every month). So those won’t be completed until the end no matter what.

The only really depressing thing is kinky and sexy social events sections haven’t really been touched. Hopefully as the kids get older we will be able to get out a bit more. I know our local scene is there, we just need to dive into it a bit more.

Hopefully in the next six months I will get more than 6 done. I am re-writing my resume today and getting ready to apply for a few jobs. Sir is supportive and pushing me hard as he has been interviewing new staff at his office lately. His expertise will be invaluable as I try to re-enter the out of my house work force. Feel free to send Sir ideas for monthly tasks. Your ideas will probably be nicer than the scary stuff he keeps mentioning.

My 101 Things In 1001 Days 

Start Date: 1/19/2015 – Starting Post
End Date: 10/16/2017 
Goals Completed: 6
Goals Failed: 1
Progress are listed in the table below.

Links to my posts about the project can be found at the bottom of the page or under their corresponding goal.

1. Complete my screenplay 

2. Write the 3 longer stories (0/3) 

3. Answer the 50 Questions that will free your mind (0/50)

4. Use 10 of these creative writing prompts (0/10)

5. Watch and give an honest review of the ’50 Shades of Grey’ Film (Completed 5/12/15 A Little Late )

6. Flesh out the characters and plot line for a historical novel

7. Write a ’99 Things about Me’ post

8. Write at least 1000 words a day for five days in a row x10 (0/10)

9. Write a list of 100 things that make me happy

10. Write and post at least one erotic short story or poem once a month on my blog not linked to any meme (0/34)

10.1 Glad for Thick Walls

10.2 Afternoon Delight

10.3 Mornings Are My Favorite Time of Day

10.4 Perfect Evening

10.5 Training Session Part I, Part II, Part III

10.6 Office Assistant

10.7 No Begging

11. Submit at least 10 pieces for publication (0/10)

12. Get published in any print source material (journal, anthology, book)

13. Get paid for a publication of my work

14. Complete blog posts on 200 prompts (Wicked Wednesday, TMI Tuesday, etc.) (45/200) *As of 7/18/15*

15. Post photographs of myself on the blog each month (7/34)

16. Make a least 5 video posts (0/5)

17. Post on my blog a minimum of 3 times per week.

18. Reach 100,000 views on the blog

19. Update/Add to blog profile every couple of months

20. Complete a Fabulous Phrase/Photo Friday every week (0/143) *Failed*

21. Follow/Comment on 50 different blogs (0/50)

21.1 Submissive Husband in Phoenix

21.2 Beck and Her Kinks

21.3 Cammies On the Floor

21.4 Jack and Jill

21.5 Let’s Skip the Pleasantries, Shall We?

21.6 Cupcakes and Caning

21.7 Under His Hand

21.8 A Slave to Master

22. Spend the night with a woman and Sir

23. Spend a day on a chained leash with limited mobility

24. Be hunted in the woods (I am the prey)

25. Have professional nude photos taken for Sir

26. Make a video of my pussy pulsing when I orgasm

27. Explore more rope play together/Go to a bondage workshop

28. Be made to masturbate for a live audience

29. Ask Sir for at least one task each month (3/34)

Jan. 2015 – Record 60,000 steps by the end of the month – Completed

Feb. 2015 – Complete 1000 crunches – Failed

Mar. 2015 – Learn all the Gorean positions – Completed

Apr. 2015 – None assigned

May 2015 – None assigned

June 2015 – Wear the butt plug for 50 hours – Completed 6/27/2015

July 2015 – Wear the butt plug for 100 hours –

30. Be tied up/restrained and made to watch while he fucks another woman

31. Give Sir a warm oil back massage at a time of his choosing

32. Wear the glass anal plug out of the house – Completed 6/25/2015

33. Be fingered by another man

34. Be bathed, shaved, dried and then complete dressed by Sir

36. Swallow Sir’s semen everyday for 30 days

37. Complete a post about daily changes in semen taste differences (for science)

38. Complete an as yet unknown task set by Sir at a time of his choosing

39. Spend the night in a cage and/or heavy bondage

40. Deep throat without gagging

41. Let Sir loan me out to another Dominant

42. Have two weekends away with Sir (1/2)

42.1 ‘Work’ Trip

43. Spend more than 84 hours in one week plugged

44. Take part in all anal November

45. Buy a new set of leather wrist and ankle cuffs

46. Try wax play

47. Allow Sir to slap me in the face

Sexy Social Events
48. Go to a strip club with Sir

49. Attend at least 15 BDSM events (0/15)

50. Visit at least 5 BDSM clubs (0/5)

51. Make at least 100 Fetlife friends (Currently 21)

52. Post journal entries, erotica, opinion on Fetlife 50 times (0/50)

53. Attend a bondage or BDSM conference or lecture series

54. Host a BDSM dinner party

55. Attend a sex camp

Personal Development
56. Get my pussy professionally waxed

57. Get 2 more tattoos and get the calla lilies tattoo finished (3/3)  – Completed

      Calla Lilies finished May 2015


      Lace Sleeve (Part I)

58. Get my nipples pierced

59. Get a vertical clitoral hood piercing

60. Maintain my current weight as a minimum but ideally lost 20lbs

61. Have a manicure at least once a year

62. Watch 20 movies that I have never seen before (0/20)

62.1 Avengers: Age of Ultron (5/9/2015)

62.2 Fifty Shades of Grey (5/10/2015)

62.3 Inside Out (61/16/2015)

63. Read 5 Non-fiction books (0/5)

64. Read 20 books I have never read before (0/20)

65. Read the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty Trilogy

65.1 Claiming (2/9/2015)

66. Ride on the back of a motorcycle at least once

67. Read 1 Sci-fi book of Sir’s choosing (cannot include in #46)

68. Buy myself more perfume to wear for Sir

69. Let my hair grow (trims only)

70. Get my hair professionally dyed

71. Strip and refinish Grandpa’s dresser

72. Try oysters

73. Go to brunch with Sir x5 (0/5)

74. Sing karaoke at a bar

75. Send a secret to PostSecret

76. Visit 3 US cities I have never been to before (0/3)

77. Go on a road trip

78. Travel west of the Mississippi River

79. Visit the Isle of Mann again

80. Take my children to England/Scotland/Wales – Completed 2/18/2015

81. Complete travel journal for 2015 UK trip

82. Eat at a Michelin Star restaurant

83. Potty-train The Boy

84. Potty-train Baby 2.0

85. Create allowance/job charge for the boys

86. Complete both baby books – Completed 5/15/2015

87. Have days out alone with both boys (0/2)

88. Get 1 year/4 year photos taken of the boys

89. Get 2 year/5 year photos taken of the boys

90. Complete my Five Year book in 2015

91. Buy a new Five Year book starting 2016

92. Make breakfast in bed for Sir, twice (0/2)

93. Finish at least 3 quilts (0/3)

94. Finish the king scrap quilt

95. Have a summer cook-out party

96. Buy/Move into a house

97. Get a job that pays more than my last job

98. Get another dog

99. Cook a family Thanksgiving Dinner

100. Attend my 10 year college reunion

101. Put $10 into savings jar for every goal I complete

Progress Posts:
Starting Post

2 Responses to “Six Month Update”

  • JMS

    I’d love to help add to your FetLife friends. What is your screen name there?

    • Rye

      I’m CollaredMom.

      Thanks. Can’t wait to hear from you.


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