Chasing Me Chasing You

An uncollared submissive struggling through depression, motherhood, and the constant craving of her next orgasm.

The Best of Everything

Things are rough at the Whiskey and Rye household. D/s hasn’t just taken a backseat, right now it’s in a different car on a different highway. There is so much that I’m not sure overwhelmed is even the word. But it’s not forever. It’s a means to an end. A means to the best.

We all want the best. The best for our kids, for our jobs, for our lives. We seek promotions, gratifications, success in all ways society deems necessary. Adequacy is something to be feared. So as we struggle to get through all the priorities that keep us from D/s, I want to try to keep perspective of the best. While it stinks that right now his control has to sit in the background while boxes are moved and sick kids are tended to, it’s still there. Being the best in every facet means that sometimes things have to slip. Of all the stressed filled options, D/s is the easiest to reduce.

Sometimes the best of everything takes time. Our D/s is getting better, but we’ve got a long way before we can get to best.

You know what’s the best. A blow job. Seeing his face relax as I lick and suck him into oblivion. You know what else is great? Chocolate. And macaroni and cheese. Road trips and thong underwear and puppies.

It’s all about keeping the best in perspective. I’m not feeling too much like me. But all those bests keep me going. It’s trying to remember who I am and not get too bogged down in all the bests that I don’t have yet. The best of everything comes in pieces. And reading and sharing about the bests of others makes it all worth while.

Read about everyone’s bests this week as Wicked Wednesday celebrates it’s 200th week. Congrats to Marie and everyone who takes part.

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8 Responses to “The Best of Everything”

  • Marie Rebelle

    It’s good to keep an eye on the things that make you happy, especially in times when other things are not running as well as you want them too. Hugs to you!

    Rebel xox

  • Charlie Powell

    I agree – chocolate and blow jobs are things to be savoured/treasured. I hope things improve soon xx

  • Molly

    I know this feeling. My eldest son is doing exams I feel like every evening is spent battling with him over it and I am losing myself into this hell. Sometimes I want to just run away and hide and have a few moment to just be myself and not be Mum. I am sure that sounds horribly selfish but I think when balance is lost in our lives it can have a huge impact in all parts of well-being


    • Rye

      I completely agree. And the non-mom (mum) time is usually the first thing to go when things get busy. Our personal time is always the sacrificial lamb to the family grind. We all feel selfish about it, but the reality is that no one is going to offer it to us unless we ask for it.

      Good luck to your son on his exams 🙂

  • Elliott

    Oh God, I love macaroni and cheese and blow jobs… not together. of course.

    • Rye

      I don’t know….you should try them together 🙂

  • Velvet Rose

    You definintely had me at chocolate and blow-jobs. Sometimes life just takes over and D/s has to take that backseat, myself and M have had this for the last year or so, but it gets there, we just connect in whatever way we can.

    Velvet x

    • Rye

      Yeah, sick kids and moving stress have push D/s back a lot. Hopefully we will get settled in the next month and we can get back to a more active routine. It is comforting to know that other couples struggle with this ebb and flow though too.


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