Chasing Me Chasing You

An uncollared submissive struggling through depression, motherhood, and the constant craving of her next orgasm.


What would I do if Sir and I switched roles? I complain a lot about what he is or isn’t doing. About how I’m not feeling the control and other general whining. What would happen if I was responsible for him?

Well first, I would orgasm a lot more. I guess that is obvious though. My sex drive would definitely be the focus of his service. Being realistic about domestic chores would be necessary. His work schedule doesn’t allow for him to be in charge of all the cleaning and cooking. But I may add a few cleaning routines to the weekend. And the occasional foot rub.

But Rye, you say, what about supporting him and his general improvement? Don’t worry, I’m getting there. I think we would both go on a diet and exercise plan. I know that I cook now, but I don’t want to cook seperate things for each of us and the kids. And having someone to exercise with me would help both of us. I know he isn’t as focused on his weight as I am, but I think it would be proactive to get into an exercise routine. I would also consider adding a writing requirement for him. He does write out his feelings well and I think it would help me gauge how he is doing.

All in all I can talk a big talk. It’s easy to write about all the things I would do as a dominant, but that doesn’t mean it would manifest itself that way. I’m sure I would mess it up somehow. I read a lot of blogs about FLMs (Female Led Marriages) that seem so easy and wonderful. And I’m sure there would be a pretty big learning curve with the strap-on too. I could never get the vibrator lined up with my clit when we played with it before. I would probably just have to forego my own pleasure and just focus on the control over him.

Thanks for indulging my mind wandering. Don’t worry, this masochist sub is not switching sides any time soon. And I’m not sure Sir could put up with more than a day of taking orders from me. He wouldn’t mind all the oral though. That Dom sure loves his pussy.

3 Responses to “Switcheroo”

  • Penny

    I whine and complain a lot, but truthfully, I don’t think I could do what I’m asking Garf to do. Won’t stop me from whining though. lol

  • Her Subject

    This is such a thing called dominant bottom. And submissive top. And service top.

  • ancilla ksst

    If I were on top I’d command him to beat me all the time. More! I’m not done yet, more beating!
    I think I’d hate it though, being in charge. In fact, I’m sure I would.


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