I’m not even sure what I was going to write about before I saw Kaya’s news yesterday. Right now nothing else matters.
As a woman, submissive, mother, person my heart breaks for Kaya. Her blog telling of her life and M/s relationship was an amazing part of my introduction into kink. She inspired me to start this blog and even helped me to find help starting my own site. Without her help I probably wouldn’t have kept writing.
At the same time, I could never judge her. Reading of her tragic news yesterday made me want to reach through the screen and hug her. No one should have to experience such a thing. And the idea of writing a sex blog while dealing with grief seems so distant from the list of one’s priorities. As much as it will hurt to lose her and her experience, I completely understand. I’m not sure I could do it either.
Sir is taking is quite hard. He’s been reading her since before he even met me. Back when his kinky life was all fantasy. Kaya and Scott’s relationship was everything he could ever wish for. When I found kink it was the first thing he showed me. It became a big resource for us as both of them were willing to answer our questions and share their ‘failed’ experiences.
I encourage you to go and read her amazing decade of work before it disappears. Start from the beginning and enjoy the laughter and tears. Know what it is when I say that I will miss her and everything she brought to the BDSM blogging community. And may she find healing as she deals with her tragic loss.