Chasing Me Chasing You

An uncollared submissive struggling through depression, motherhood, and the constant craving of her next orgasm.

Slut Reviewed

I am a slut. I’m still coming to grips about what that actually means though. ‘Slut’ is a word that was always a negative term. There was no context, even with friends, where the word was used in a positive way. It’s really only been in the last few months that I have come to reexamine the term.

I have been looking at several books into open relationships and polyamory. As part of most of these resources, nearly all authors look at sex as a positive aspect of a relationship. They often also look at sex as being part or a whole basis for a connection. Ruling out the idea that you have to constantly being looking for a ‘one true love’. Sex can be an expression of a connection for 5 minutes, 5 dates, or 5 decades.

The other realization that I’ve come to is that I’m also a slut for an emotional connection. In the past few years I have worked to foster emotional connections with people. I’ve never been great at fleeting friendships. I have few friends, but those I do have are very close. I’ve been that way since I was a kid. Some of those friendships have grown into sexual connections as well (see all of the various California trip posts). The physical passion we share is matched by our emotional connection; which is magical. Other relationships, my twitter boyfriend specifically, have maintained an emotional only relationship. A lot of that is due to distance, but also my respect for his monogamous marriage.

Admitting to myself that I was a slut for sex; can you also be a slut for other things? If that’s the case, I’m also a slut for an emotional connection. I like to know people. I guess with this expanding definition I’m also a slut for fried food, good cider, and bacon. Maybe that’s the biggest revelation of my slutfest over the last year or so. That not only has my definition of slut expanded; but linking it to all part of my life is positive and fulfilling.

Read about others’ experience with their slutfests for this week’s Wicked Wednesday.

 

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5 Responses to “Slut Reviewed”

  • Marie Rebelle

    Interesting thoughts here. Yes, I think we can indeed be sluts in different aspects of our lives. I definitely prefer a emotional connection too. I don’t think I would be able to have sex with someone who I don’t feel some kind of click with. And then, when I’ve had sex with someone, I want to know more about them, want to get to know them better and want them to get to know me better too. However, it doesn’t always work out that way…

    Rebel xox

  • Cammies on the Floor

    I love slut for the positivity, and thank you for embracing and sharing the different ways you’re a slut

  • Jack (and Jill)

    I can honestly say that it hadn’t occurred to me that one can be a slut for other things besides sex, but it makes perfect sense and I am really glad you wrote about this. I am a slut for sex. I am a slut for emotion. I am a slut for whiskey, good music, and food. As a parent, I am definitely a slut for peace and quiet. My wife, as you already know, is a slut for bacon. And cock. She loves cock.

  • Molly

    I love how you have expanded on the meaning of slut… the bit about bacon made me laugh out loud.

    I too am a slut

    Mollyxxx

  • Jaime

    Cuddle-sluts are good too. I suspect most women I know are chocosluts. Bless all ,manner of sluts, in all their/our glorious ranges of tastes!

    Nice piece.

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